
My rating: 4 of 5 stars
Reviewed by: Michelle
ARC provided by publisher in exchange for an honest review

Who is Asa Akira? Well, you either know of her or you don’t. But I think practically majority of the male population might know who she is according to her large amount of Twitter followers. Well for those who don’t know who she is let me give you a brief introduction on who she is. Asa Akira is synonymous as one of the top leading porn actress known for her anal scenes and recently as a published author.
Porn. There will always be a stigma associated with porn. You either hate it, enjoy it, love it, or are indifferent. As a blogger that mostly reviews romance books, majority of romance authors will tell you that they get inspirations from watching porn in order to write those sexy steamy scenes and so when I had the opportunity to read and review Asa Akira’s second memoir Dirty Thirty, I wanted to know what made Asa Akira a household name.
Dirty Thirty gives readers an insider’s perspective on Asa Akira’s life from her promiscuous youth to sex, love, life, marriage, and being in the porn industry. After reading this memoir, I will say that I find Asa to be intriguing. She has led such a colorful life that was filled with many ups and downs. Her life has been influenced and shaped by the wide array cast of characters that she has met. Yes, her profession is porn but I don’t think we should judge her solely on her profession. She is just like any other individual making a living but her career choice was something that she wanted to do. What I truly enjoyed about this memoir is that we got to see the real Asa Akira flaws and all. Her life may not be perfect but she is true. I find her to be funny, caring, sensitive, wild, crazy, and kind of lovable.
I did enjoy her insider’s perspective on her marriage to fellow porn star, Toni Ribas. I know that many people like myself wonder how can their marriage work. Wouldn’t there be jealousy, infidelity and insecurities? And the answer is yes minus the infidelity. Their marriage works because they have an open communication and have set strict boundaries and rules when it comes to sex on set and off. They both have a deep respect in one another so both of them try to abide by theie rules. Asa didn’t hold back as she discussed they are just like any couple that fights and gets jealous. Are these two perfect? Absolutely not, but Asa and Toni’s boundaries and trust within each other are what works for them. So yes, Asa Akira can have it all. She can be successful in the porn industry and have a happy committed marriage.
My only wish was that she kept her memoir chronological instead of jumping from the past to present and then present to the past. But other than that, I did enjoy getting to know Asa Akira, the porn star, the wife, the daughter, the friend, and as a woman. So if you are ready to get to know the wild, crazy, and intriguing Asa Akira then I suggest you go pick up her memoir and discover how clever, witty, and funny Asa Akira can be.

Asa Akira
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